first give us an descent link...
second, you can edit the emo's in the admin panel, just put excess ones as "popup" so they will only show up when you ask for them to show...
setting up SMF for the first time is hard, i know, but when you get more experienced in it, you'll find your way arround.
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"forum link"/index.php?action=smileys;sa=editsmileys
(login to the admin panel first)